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If you are a girl in your 20's, there are some points you have to take a note of if you want to avoid ending up in an exhausting 30's.
ATTENTION!!! young girls. Here are a few things to be noted if you are in your early 20’s
This is one thing which we fail to do. All of us get into this rat-race of studies/job/partnership, we often forget about ourselves. To avoid ending up in a physically and mentally exhausted 30’s, start focusing on yourself.
‘ You are your priority ‘. Repeat that daily and you can see wonders coming in your way.
The pitfall of growing up in an Indian household is that emotional neglect is prime. Never did we get a space to open up about our feelings, manage them, and at times challenge them. If you are one among those, who were deprived of this emotional security, start working on it. Indulge in things that make you happy and at peace.
Go out and find time for those guilty pleasures.
Girls!! Nothing gives you the power which money can give. Small steps matter. Hence start your financial investments as early as possible. I believe, at the end of the day, it matters more than anything else.
Relationships, be it with friends/parents/partners require constant effort for it to be nurtured. YES!!! you have to put in a lot of effort and time. Understand that, there is so much more in a healthy relationship than a few sugar-coated words. Keep the people who allow you to be who you are rather than pulling you down.
And on the top, MARRIAGE can wait.
If your parents never get it right, don’t worry. You don’t have to end up in the same plight. Things may not work as peacefully and silently as it happened in their times. So never settle for something lesser than what you deserve so early in your life.
Keep investing and growing yourself, so that one day you get what you deserve.
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Nidhi is from Kerala currently residing in Chennai. She is in research for the past 3years. She writes about anything that fascinates her and that includes societal issues, relationships, career, mental health, etc. read more...
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