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Eventually the bahu manages to convince her marital clan that such restrictions imposed by a ruthless patriarchal society on women are illogical, baseless, unscientific, and grossly inhumane.
Albeit it is a little late in the day but as a ‘feminist’ movie buff I am full of admiration for the 2020 Bangla film Brahma Janen Gopon Kommoti (The Creator Knows The Secret).
The film revolves around the doings of a feisty liberal young lady Shabari who vociferously lambasts the prevailing social dogmas which debar women from officiating as priests since they undergo menstruation every month. The protagonist also raises her voice against the concept and practice of kanyadaan.
*Spoilers Alert*
Shabari is a Sanskrit lecturer at college, an accomplished vocalist, and yes you have got to believe this: an honorary priest. She has picked up the nuances of priesthood from her late father, a full time purohit. Incidentally the plot is based on the real life happenings of Nandini Bhowmick, a Kolkata based lady priest, who is often in the news for solemnizing weddings sans kanyadaan.
When a chance encounter with an eligible bachelor at a college ‘do’ leads to match making, she tells the groom-to-be that she does ‘puja’ among other things. Her words are misconstrued as the quotidian puja that (married) women perform in their homes.
While the nuptials are on she persuades the priest to skip the ritual of kanyadaan. After the wedding, Shabari is in for a ‘culture shock’ as the family is terribly orthodox. This compels her to pursue her priestly duties clandestinely.
When the surreptitious activities are ultimately exposed, her in laws are petrified. The womenfolk are further aghast to realize that Shabari even conducted the in-house puja while on her period. As expected, a huge drama unfolds, leading to her ostracization. Fortunately for her, they are neither aggressive nor violent, being timid, faint hearted people.
Eventually the bahu manages to convince her marital clan that such restrictions imposed by a ruthless patriarchal society on women are illogical, baseless, unscientific, grossly inhumane. And that women are in no way inferior to their male counterparts.
As the clarion call against the taboo imposed on ‘menstrual blood’ gets louder and clearer with each passing day, this film is indeed a shot in the arm for women’s activists and social workers; hence it is a must-see for everyone, irrespective of their age groups.
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