If this could happen to me, a professionally trained doctor myself, and a strong, independent woman, I shudder to think of what other women face.

So, was I just supposed to resign to everything that was happening to me? In my view, just because something is common and part of pregnancy, cannot make it normal.

The labour room is where women are their most vulnerable, and a kind word, a friendly face, is what they need. Not rude, inconsiderate staff.

Over the years, I learnt of several other things she had offered to the Gods so our dreams and wishes would come true. I never saw my father doing something like that for me or anyone in his family.

She told my mother, "You doting parents turn these girls into delicate darlings, you should let them be a little tough. Girls have to be strong, what is this?"